He is Forcing Me To Take In The Product of His Affair
Hi, I think I have fainted 10 times today. My husband is 43, and I’m 30. We started dating when I was 17 in high school, but he waited till I completed varsity.
So now I wasn’t ready to have kids and asked him to wait, and he agreed. To the shock of my life, he has impregnated a university student, and it’s their second child, the oldest being a year-old boy, and now she’s pregnant again.
My husband said I must take the kids when she delivers and raise them as my own, or he’ll find a nanny, but his kids will stay at home and their mom must enjoy her young life. I don’t know whether to divorce him, but this is the first time he’s ever disrespected me.
Hello, Writer. I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s a tough situation, and I hope I can help you think things through. First off, Your husband having a child with someone else, especially when you’re not ready for kids, breaks the trust in your marriage. If he really loved you, he would have waited.
All in all, the question is, what do you need from your husband moving forward? Is this how you want to raise your family? You will have to think about your values and whether this situation is something you can work through. Can you cope with all…
