I Am Trapped In My Own Home
Hi, please help. So my boyfriend moved in with me and my children about 6 months ago. Before he moved in, he was perfect for me. He was sweet, gentle, and so kind to me. I admit, I fell for him big time. My children also felt the same. After moving in, I noticed he would have mood swings, sometimes over the smallest thing.
During this, he would scream and shout at me. completely insult everything about me. BTW, I do everything around the house and all the cooking. Sometimes he cooks, but that’s mainly for himself. but when he is in his mood, he will literally hate me for everything I do. He scares me, and he scares my kids. Whenever I’ve asked him to leave, he refuses and threatens to f*ck me up. He will proceed to tell the kids he will f*ck me up.
One minute I clean too much, the next I’m lazy. One minute he loves the food I cook; the next he hates it, and I make him physically sick. He says I should look after my man, and how can he love me when I don’t do what he likes? and that he could be out meeting other women, but he respects me enough to come home to me.
For the last few weeks, I’ve been having a weird feeling, and today he went to work and left his phone. Yes, I looked at it and felt so guilty about it. but I…
